Welcome to the Sunday, February 2, 2025, Issue of HaSMaR 1-2-3, a weekly publication in which I share One Powerful Principle, Two Brilliant Strategies, and Three Action Stepsfor Creating an Honorable and Sustainable Marriage Relationship.
One Powerful Principle
Your ideal marriage, which should be nothing short of an honorable and sustainable marriage relationship, must encompass 100% physical attraction, 100% mental wellness, 100% emotional connection, and 100% spiritual compatibility—Dr. Francis Ngulefac.
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If you neglect any one of the four major components above, your marriage relationship will be in jeopardy. I have not come across anyone who is in an honorable marriage relationship and these factors are missing. If you find any, let me know. If any of these are missing, you will be in an imbalanced system full of complaints and regrets.
Two Brilliant Strategies
These two strategies will enable you to create such a balanced system.
- Ensure that you are Healthy in all Four Areas of Your Life.
The outcome of everything in your life is the result of your spirit, soul (mind, will, emotions), and body. Your mind coordinates what you think and your emotions direct how you feel. These two determine the decisions you make. Your spirit must also align with your mind and emotions to create a sound decision system. A sound decision system then enhances your body to take action.
2. Evaluate your partner using those four components.
Evaluations are the best way to know how well you or someone else is doing. It would be necessary to access your prospects in those areas before deciding to proceed.
Three Action Steps
Do these three things to fulfill the powerful principle for this post.
- Eat healthy and exercise frequently—take proper care of your physical body and ensure that your partner does the same.
- Study extensively and think critically—these are two primary ways to feed your soul. Ensure that both of you make this a habit.
- Practice spiritual disciplines—you should engage in constant prayer, fasting, meditation, worship, and fellowship.
Key Takeaway: Anyone who neglects to consider physical attraction, mental wellness, emotional connection, and spiritual compatibility before getting married is most likely unhappy or gets into a deep depression, or divorce, and could die untimely. Not very good to say!!
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Dr. Francis Ngulefac | President @ The HaSMaR Institute | francis.ngulefac@gmail.com
- Our Mission: To Enable Individuals and Couples to Create and Enjoy Honorable and Sustainable Marriage Relationships so that they can Lead Successful Family Lives.
- Our Motto: We Are Better Together.