A marriage without a vision can often feel very much like a ship sailing alone. It is risky and it is lost without a destination or stern to fend against the whims of life. But when two hearts and minds come together in front of a common shared future, the relationship of those two hearts becomes something completely unique. It has direction, strength, and a sense of purpose that keeps them happily pounding against anything life throws at them.
In his Valuable Decorations for Your Marriage, Dr. Francis Ngulefac invites couples into a visionary journey that he offers for a change. Using wisdom and empathy along with practical tools. He empowers partners to dream together, plan intentionally for what they want, and grow up side by side as a couple.
This is not even about setting goals but really drawing the big picture for a thriving, fulfilling union based on love, mutual respect, and shared values. The ideal reading, be it for newly married couples or couples married for decades, it will guide you to try and revive your relationship and deepen your commitment toward one another.
Ready to build something beautiful together? The best time to start shaping the bright future both of you deserve is now.
Why a Shared Vision Matters
It is a clear and convincing portrait of the future of your marriage, as it relates to you and your spouse together like a winning team. The Scriptures also remind us about that in Habakkuk 2:2–3: “Write the vision; make it plain… it will surely come.” This power of truth reinforces the fact that relationship must involve clarity and intentionality.”
It is a 21-day vision plan that couples can access at Dr. Francis Ngulefac to unite their dreams it does not matter whether it is raising God loving children, serving their community, building a legacy, or deepening their spiritual walk with God. A vision shared with each other becomes the anchor for both partners, enabling them to ride out the most difficult storms in life together.
Signs You Need a Vision
Ever feel trapped in a twister of daily repetition? Do those tiny decisions sprawled into big fights, leaving you both frustrated and drained? Maybe these are indications that your marriage seems to lack a guiding vision—an overarching sense of purpose that will bond and inspire you.
In Valuable Decorations for Your Marriage, Dr. Francis Ngulefac recounts the touching tale of James and Maria, a couple who felt emotionally distant and lack direction. The turning point came when they undertook and finished the Day 10 exercise in the book, which revealed their vision: to mentor young couples in their church. This mission reconciled them and rekindled their joy.
Steps to Craft Your Vision
Try these steps by Dr. Ngulefac, mentioned in Valuable Decorations for Your Marriage:
- Pray Together: Ask God to reveal His plan for your marriage, as Philippians 1:6 promises He’s at work.
- Dream Big: Discuss, “What do we want our marriage to achieve in 5 years?” Examples: leading a Bible study, traveling for missions, or building a legacy of generosity.
- Write It Down: Create a one-sentence vision statement, like “Our marriage will inspire others through faith and service.”
- Take One Step: Pick a small action, like volunteering together monthly, to bring your vision to life.
One couple Dr. Ngulefac coached started a weekly prayer group, sparking joy and connection. These steps turn abstract dreams into reality.
Live Your Vision Daily
A vision is not a one-time activity; it is a continuous commitment. Revisit your statement monthly, pray over it, and celebrate its progress. Dr. Ngulefac’s HaSMaR Better Together program offers coaching to make your vision a reality, ensuring your marriage thrives. As he reminds us, “We Are Better Together—Because We Become Richer, Safer, Warmer, Stronger.”
Call To Action: Craft a vision for your marriage with Valuable Decorations for Your Marriage. Join the HaSMaR Better Together program for personalized guidance to build a vibrant future together.